What to Say to the Teacher on Day One: Simple Phrases That Make a Big Difference

Starting a new school year can bring up a mix of emotions—not just for kids, but for families too. If you're wondering what to say to your child's teacher on the first day, you're not alone. The good news? You don’t have to share the full story. Just a few thoughtful words can help lay the foundation for a strong partnership.

Here are some simple, effective ways to connect with your child’s teacher right from the start:

Start with Kindness

A smile and a warm intro go a long way.
Say something like:

"Hi, I’m [Your Name] and I’m excited to work together this year."

Share Strengths and Interests

Help the teacher connect with your child as a person, not just a student.
For example:

"He loves dinosaurs and solving puzzles!"

Talk About What Works

If you already know what helps your child thrive, share it.
Try saying:

"Taking short breaks helps her stay regulated and focused."

Be Clear About What You Need

Speak with respect and clarity about your expectations.
You might say:

"I’d love for us to check in weekly about how things are going."

Show You're a Team Player

A collaborative attitude builds trust.
A simple phrase can show your support:

"I’m here to help from home too."

Reasonable Supports You Can Ask For

Your child has the right to the supports they need. Don’t be afraid to ask!
Here are examples you might request:

• Sensory supports: noise-canceling headphones, movement breaks, flexible seating

• Visual supports: picture schedules, illustrated routines

• Emotional supports: calm corner, safe word for breaks

Final Tip

You don’t need to say everything on day one. Start with what matters most and build the relationship over time. Your voice matters—and when you speak up, you help create a safe, supportive space for your child to grow.

Remember: Speak up. Ask for what’s needed. Build the team.